Thursday, October 19, 2023

 

Along Our Ride on The Train of Life – Mid-October 2023

Shalom dear readers:

 

These days I tread carefully as I am being tossed around, back and forth, on this terribly shaky ride of life. I ask myself, what can I do to cope and not fall apart. How can I continue on my journey as if nothing has happened? I go back to the adage implanted in me by my Grade 1 and Grade 2 teachers: YOU CAN DO IT. Their words back then encouraged me to want to be a teacher. “I CAN DO IT.” Such words can warm us within our hearts as well as my teachers’ SMILES and ENCOURAGING COMMMENTS. Education is not only about brilliance, patience, and delivery; it’s about setting the example. It’s the GLUE that sticks!

 

Let’s not wait for a chance for something to happen. Let’s make the change ourselves. Every day we should ask ourselves, “What can we do to help someone else in need?”

 

Age has no barrier. Many of us are enclosed in our homes for safety, for fear. Shopping for pleasure or going out to see friends is limited or non-existent for now. But all of us have neighbors who are seeking friendship and can offer a kind word or gesture.

 

Loneliness leads to despair, but we have other ways of keeping occupied: study groups online, book discussions, music, etc.  It is up to us to address our loneliness and it is our DUTY to help ourselves to feel less lonely.

 

There is a modern song by Bonnie Tyler called HOLDING OUT FOR A HERO. The lyrics go as follows:

“Somewhere after midnight, in my wildest fantasy: somewhere just beyond my reach, there’s someone reaching back for me… I need a hero.”

 

In the Torah, we find examples from Sarah Imainu and Chana. They found that their strength and solace came via their prayers. They taught us how to connect to the Divine. The secret of tefilla (prayer) is selflessness.

 

Jonah had to descend into the deepest part of the ocean to reclaim his faith and to learn that Hashem is everywhere. Hashem is our hero!

 

And so, I pray that each of us will reach with our hearts and souls to rise above our fears, as real as they are, and to help ourselves and others around us. Pray for all of our people and for ourselves to learn and to practice the message: “I CAN DO IT.” Say to yourself, “I CAN still function and do good in this world in some fashion.”

 

G. bless all of us, our brethren all over, and protect our soldiers, who give their lives for all of Am Yisroel.

G. willing, we will meet again, during our train ride of life, in November 2023.

 

CHW

Sunday, October 1, 2023

 

Along Our Ride on The Train of Life - October 2023

Shalom dear readers:

The High Holy Days, “Yomim Noraim” inspired me to think about life and how to make good use of what I am doing along the train of life in a better way. I am sharing with you my suggestions for myself, and hope that you may find some good points for you to consider as you ride with me on the train of life.

How do we find balance in our life?

·       Let’s stop comparing ourselves with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.

·       Let’s not take for granted the things closest to our heart. Cling to them as your life, for without them, life is meaningless.

·       Don’t let life slip through our fingers by living in the past or for the future. Let’s live our lives one day at a time.

·       Let’s not give up when we still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.

·       Let’s not be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.

·       Let’s not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn to be brave.

·       Let’s not run through life so fast that we forget not only where we have been, but also where we are going.

·       Let’s remember that a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

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  Let’s not use time and/or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

·       Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift! That’s why we call it the present.

·       Let’s hope that the new year will be one blessed with life, health, a bit of peace and quiet here in our homeland.

·       The key to true happiness is the ability to give to others. A smile is the best medicine. A smile can warm our hearts. The singer Nat King Cole sang so beautifully the words of the song ‘Smile’.

·       From the Lubavitch Rebbe, I learned to erase the idea of having a ‘problem’ and to use the word and thought ‘opportunity’ instead.

·       The American author, Albert Pike wrote: “What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world remains and is immortal.”

I wish us all to believe in ourselves and the ability to accomplish anything we set our minds to do.

Until we meet again in November, G. willing,

CHW